The Story of the Tent

The other day a supporter, Lori, saw our request on Facebook for a family-sized tent to use at Julia’s Place. Lori brought her tent by and shared this story about how she came to have it to give.

My step-grandmother was a very dear lady who married into a huge family – she already had six children of her own and some grandchildren, and my grandfather had 10 children and 15 of us grand kids! She herself had managed to escape from a very abusive first husband, in a very, very tight patriarchal religious community. I don’t know how many years she managed to keep her family together before she came into our lives, but it was quite awhile. The strength it took for her to get away from that man and that life, and to keep her children safe, is something I am still humbled by today. She and my grandfather were married for over 20 years before he passed away; she died in 2001.

Though she was not a wealthy woman, she still managed to leave each of us a small gift after her passing. Our family loves to go camping. We have a great aunt who was in her 80’s and still wanted to camp with all of us. So, with my inheritance from my step-grandmother, I bought this tent to bring all the comforts of home to make it possible for an 80-year-old to camp with all of the “kids”. We made one trip each year for a few years and she had the best time. I have been holding on to the tent since, not wanting to just get rid of it or pass it along to anyone as it holds special meaning for me, being a purchase made possible by my strong, loving, selfless step-grandmother.

When I saw your post on Facebook – the decision was made for me. What a perfect way to honor her! That our tent, that has been filled with love, family and memories, will go to another woman with a beautiful family who needs a replacement tent. I wish her strength and many blessings!

Never Liked – Always Liked

A few weeks ago during the Write to Heal and Have Fun group, leader Julie Gardner gave the prompt, I Have Never Liked. The women wrote for five minutes. At the end she asked them to write the words, I’ve Always Liked and complete the sentence with one thing.

Julie said, “I was touched by the deep things and simple things the women wrote. The last lines were strong. All showed gratitude for big and little things.” She liked that the pieces shared some of the hardships of homeless and formerly homeless women which invites understanding and compassion from readers. And she added, “We had fun.”

Never Liked, Always Liked
Diana Balgaard

I never liked junk mail, paperwork,

cooking, stone faced people,

narcissism, authority figures, men

with large egos.

Football, baseball,

canned laughter.

Muddy walks, dirty water, loud

obnoxious people,

people who

talk constantly about nothing.

On the bus, seeing elders without seats.

Uphill climbs,

crowds

of people marching toward me.

But I’ve always liked

heart to heart conversations

 

Holiday Volunteer Opportunities

December is a very busy month at Mary’s Place and we are starting to plan for holiday meals, Santa’s visit, and lots of shopping and wrapping! We need lots and lots of volunteers – individuals and groups to make it all happen. If you can help, email erin@marysplaceseattle.org.

Saturday, December 13 – Holiday Meal and the Santa Stor  This year our holiday celebration dinner and Santa Store for kids to shop for moms, dads, and grandmas will be held at the Seattle Center. New this year, young ladies can pick out a new Christmas dress at the Dress Corner! We need volunteers to help as greeters, holiday meal servers, personal shoppers at the Santa Store, help kids shop and wrap the presents they pick our for their families, and dress fitters.

December 15-17  The Santa Store at the Mary’s Place Day Center is where moms, dads, and grandmas shop for gifts for their children. We need volunteers to help lead crafts for the kids while they wait for their parents to shop and to help with lunch prep and serving.

Monday, December 22 – Pictures with Santa  Santa will visit the Mary’s Place Day Center from 10am-1pm for pictures! We need a photographer to take pictures of kids, women and families with Santa, people to lead game and crafts to keep the kids busy while they’re waiting to see Santa, carolers, and help preparing and serving lunch.

Tuesday, December 23 – Bon Mary’s Holiday Sale  It’s the last shopping day of the year and an all-day shopping extravaganza at the Mary’s Place Day Center! There will be a Bon Mary’s for the adults and Bon Jr.’s for the kids. We nee personal shoppers, volunteers to set up and restock the store shelves, gift wrappers, and help preparing and serving lunch.

Thursday, December 25 – Christmas Day  Mary’s Place Day Center is closed on Christmas Day, but all of our family night shelters will be open all day. We need volunteers to bring in a special holiday lunch for our families at one of the three locations: Julia’s Place in Madrona (22 people), Emergency Family Shelter in Belltown (48 people), and Bianca’s Place in South Lake Union (80 people); and there are lots of opportunities to host games, decorate cookies, and help our families celebrate the day.

We need you to help make the holidays special for our women, children and families! Contact Erin@marysplaceseattle.org for more information or to sign up.

Julia’s Place Celebrates Two Years in Madrona

Two years ago this month, Pastor Mark Zimmerly from Madrona Grace heard that Mary’s Place was offering night shelter for families that rotated between several area congregations. He wanted to help, and offered the use of the Madrona Grace basement to help homeless families year round. The Presbyterian Network to End Homelessness volunteered to help renovate the space and the Pritt family donated funds to the endeavor. The shelter, that now houses 25 family members each night, became Julia’s Place, named after Julia Pritt, a long-standing member of the Madrona Grace congregation.

The Madrona community has supported the families at Julia’s Place by bringing in meals each night, groceries, blankets, love and community. This year, the Julia’s Place staff, Jocelyn, had some wonderful stories of her time at Julia’s Place. She recalled a six-year old African girl, Hana, who developed a deep sister-friendship with another family’s daughter, two-year-old Ilse. Every evening the two played together, and even though they spoke different languages their hearts sung! Ilse looked up to Hana and followed her around wherever she went. When Hana’s family was suddenly offered a home, they packed up their things to move out of Julia’s Place. Hana said goodbye and hugged all the families, but she spent time saying a special goodbye to Ilse’s family. It was a bittersweet moment for everyone at Julia’s Place.

Jocelyn was touched by a mother who had been a Christian singer in Mexico and had a CD of beautiful songs. She remained artistically inspired and drew beautiful scenes each day and hung them up in Julia’s Place to brighten the space.

In 2013, Julia’s Place provided over 6,000 bed nights families who would otherwise be on the streets. The need continues to grow and this year already Julia’s Place has provided 4,800 bed nights.

You can learn more about Julia’s Place and how you can get more involved at an Open House on October 14th from 6pm to 8pm at Madrona Grace Presbyterian Chuch, 832 32nd Ave. Seattle. RSVP to Abbey@marysplaceseattle.org. More at www.Juliasplace.org.

No Child Sleeps Outside: Shelter as Part of a Comprehensive Strategy for Eliminating Homelessness

ACCORDING TO FAMILY HOUSING CONNECTIONS, THERE WERE OVER 5,100 HOMELESS FAMILIES IN KING COUNTY LAST YEAR. AT MARYS PLACE, THE NUMBER OF BED NIGHTS WE PROVIDED GREW FROM 7,000 IN 2012, TO OVER 20,000 IN 2013. Earlier this year the City of Seattle awarded Mary’s Place $200,000 to open Bianca’s Place, our crisis response family shelter in South Lake Union. Bianca’s Place, our fourth family night shelter, has nearly doubled our capacity, yet we still turn families away at night.

The reality is that there are thousands more people on lists for housing in our area than there are available units. Where are families and children supposed to go while they wait weeks, even months for housing? It’s unacceptable that there are still families sleeping outside at night, and the cold of winter is just around the corner. Crisis Response Shelter is a critical and effective part of the rehousing system and needs to be expanded.

The families we bring into Mary’s Place emergency shelters are finding resources, connecting to schools, developing skills, and building support networks to move into jobs and homes successfully. Working together with other providers and organizations that are committed to solving homelessness, Mary’s Place will be a strong voice for the role of crisis response shelter.

Our community shelter model works. It’s what families want, and it’s cost effective. Mary’s Place can feed and house an individual in one of our shelters for just $11 a night. Our goal is to open more crisis response night shelters for families in other areas of King County to meet the growing need.

Our Advocacy and Partnerships Committee and staff have been busy over the last few months talking with elected officials and the City of Seattle about continued funding for Bianca’s Place and our vision that Every Family Sleep Inside at Night.

This month the City begins its 2015/2016 budget process. The Mayor will deliver his budget to the City Council and then councilmembers will hold meetings and public hearings to incorporate their own funding priorities.

If you would like to help, contact the Seattle City Council by emailing council@seattle.gov and the King County Council at council@kingcounty.gov. Let your elected leaders know that no child, no family should sleep outside at night. Ask them to continue to support, and to expand, the Mary’s Place crisis response family shelter model.

You can also attend public hearings on the proposed budget and make your voice heard. Information about City of Seattle October budget hearings is at www.seattle.gov/council/budget/. King County dates have not yet been published, but find that info here: www.kingcounty.gov/council/budget.aspx.

Throughout the budget process we will send email notices about meetings and opportunities to be heard. If you are not on our email list and would like to be added, please email abbey@marysplaceseattle. We hope you’ll join our families, staff, and supporters at Council meetings this Fall!

From our Autumn Newsletter

Announcing Taylor’s Fund

Taylor’s Fund was established in 2014 in memory of our sister, Taylor, who fought terminal cancer with grace and dignity, and provides end of life care for our women. Taylor was an active and beloved member of Mary’s Place for over a decade. She came and began doing what she does best – cooking! Taylor never worked from a recipe, but created wonderful meals from her heart. She served hundreds of thousands of meals at Mary’s Place, and trained other women to cook alongside her. She never let her illness keep her from giving back to her family at Mary’s Place and you could find her in the Mary’s Place kitchen nearly every day cooking up some special treats for the women and children.

Your contribution to Taylor’s Fund pays for end of life care and, remembering how much Taylor loved it when we brought her peaches in final days, Taylor’s Fund provides comfort food and other items to our terminally ill women. Many of our state’s homeless who have no next of kin are buried unceremoniously with other unclaimed souls. Taylor’s Fund ensures that our women receive a loving and respectful burial.

Taylor —-
Take a pinch of laughter
Add a dash of leadership
Two handfuls of generosity
And heaping pile of love
Don’t forget the double pinch of independence!
Stir daily with creativity
Serve with loyalty and compassion

Mary’s Place Honored with ‘Outstanding Organization’ Award

SEATTLE – May 14, 2014 – The Seattle Human Services Coalition is honoring Mary’s Place with the Outstanding Organization Award as part of its 2014 Human Services Awards. “The Awards Committee was incredibly impressed with the high caliber of all the organizations doing inspirational work in our community,” said Julia Ismael, the SHSC chair for the Human Services Awards Committee, “Mary’s Place stood out as exceptional among all the heartfelt nominations.”

Mary’s Place is one of the few places that offer crisis response night shelter and day center services for homeless families with children. In addition to addressing basic needs such as food, safety and medical care, Mary’s Place provides a welcoming and accepting environment where homeless women and their children can build community and find resources to help them restore their lives. “There are so many people who give their time and talent to make Mary’s Place a warm, safe place for our families” said Marty Hartman, Executive Director, Mary’s Place, “we are humbled by this honor and mindful that there is still much work to be done to help bring homeless women and their children inside to safety.”

During the past 15 years, Mary’s Place has served thousands of women and children in its three family night shelters and expanded-services day shelter. Next month Mary’s Place will open its fourth family night shelter and welcome single men with children along with moms and dads with children. Despite an improving economy for some, the need remains great. In King County there are more than 5,100 homeless families, with an estimated 450 spending nights in places that are not safe. Learn more about our new shelter and ways to help.

Mary’s Place and other individuals and organizations honored by the Seattle Human Services Coalition will celebrate their awards on Thursday, June 5th, from 5:30 – 7:00pm in the Bertha Knight Landes room at Seattle City Hall, 600 4th Ave, Seattle Washington. All are welcome to join, RSVP is requested at shsc@shscoalition.org. Interpretation is available if requested by May 19th.

A Place To Call Home!

With over 30,000 homeless students in our state, over 5,100 families registered in King County as homeless, and at least 450 families sleeping in places that are not safe, we are finally able to say, “Come on in, we’ve been waiting for you!”

We are excited to announce that Mary’s Place was recently awarded a $200,000 grant from the City of Seattle to open an emergency family shelter. We want to thank Mayor Ed Murray, the City’s Human Services Department, and the Seattle City Council for their commitment to providing safe shelter for families and children; and for their confidence in our cost-effective model for saving lives, building community, and restoring hope on the journey out of homelessness. A special thanks as well to our agency partners at Family Housing Connections, Catholic Community Services, Low Income Housing Institute and Seattle King County Coalition for Homelessness for their support that made this funding possible.

Our newest night shelter building is located in the Cascade neighborhood of Seattle just east of South Lake Union and will accommodate single women with children, single men with children, and moms and dads with children on two floors. Thank you to the architect, design, and planning angels at Perkins+Will for their help turning this office building into a temporary home for up to 30 families!

Families will arrive at 5:00 p.m. and have time for homework, games and play before sharing dinner together at 6:30 p.m. Then, showers, crafts and story time before bedtime and lights out at 9:00 p.m. During the week, families will leave the shelter at 8:00 a.m. to catch their taxi’s to school, go off to work/class or transition to the Mary’s Place Day Center for help with housing and employment resources. The shelter will be open all day on Saturdays and Sundays so children can get extra rest, run around in their jammies before exploring the park across the street, make their own lunch, and discover free activities in the city with their family and new friends. It truely will be, A Place to Call Home.

Our new building is waiting for you, too! We are launching a fundraising campaign to raise $100,000 to add showers, laundry and a kitchen as well as staff for evenings and weekends. You’ll be getting information about that campaign in the mail soon and I hope you can help. In the meantime, you can contribute to the effort by donating online or sending a check. More information about how to give is here. Besides funding, we have other needs as well:

  • Can you share your talents with us? We are looking for: contractors, electricians, and plumbers!
  • Can you donate materials? We need lumber, drywall, shower stalls, sink & faucet, 2 refrigerators, 2 freezers, microwaves, tables, chairs and a wall-mounted TV to start!
  • Can you come be with us? We need meals brought in every night, volunteers to play with our children, and to talk to our parents. Share your resources with us!
  • See our full wish list here

It will take all of us to fill our new building with warmth, food, hope, healing and love to make it… A Place To Call Home!

Renewing Hopes, Wishes & Dreams for 15 Years

The theme of Mary’s Place 2014 annual luncheon on May 20th celebrates our 15 year anniversary of empowering homeless women and children to reclaim their lives.

Please join us at this inspirational event with Luncheon Chair, Kelli Schneider, Seahawks Women’s Association and emcee Lori Matsukawa, King 5 News Anchor. We have a great, inspirational program planned, including a special performance by the Lullaby Project of the Seattle Symphony.

Register today and consider bringing 9 friends and being a table captain! Email Abbey@marysplaceseattle.org for more information.

Thank You, Pearl Jam!

The Vitalogy Foundation supports the efforts of non-profit organizations doing commendable work in the fields of community health, the environment, arts and education and social change. $2 from each ticket sold from the majority of Pearl Jam concerts is placed into the Vitalogy Foundation. As board members of the foundation, the members of Pearl Jam allocate Vitalogy Foundation funds to a number of non-profit organizations that they personally select.

We were surprised and thrilled to learn that Mary’s Place was selected by band member Stone Gossard to receive a donation from the Foundation of $10,000! As a thank you to Stone and the band, the kids at Mary’s Place recorded this version of Pearl Jam’s Just Breathe.