Note from a single father

Dear Mary’s Place,

I saw the story about the north Seattle shelter on KING 5 last night. I am so so glad to see you are helping single fathers. There was a time only a few years ago, I had only $150 to feed my four young boys. I went from owning a home in an expensive neighborhood, to near homeless. I didn’t know where to go or what to do. When I looked for help, it just wasn’t there. Depressed, scared, lonely, I just prayed and prayed and cried for a few years.

A big obstacle for me was the shame I felt of being a man, and needing to ask for help. There seems to be very little emotional support and/or understanding for single fathers. My kids have a mother that only sees them three times a year, for six hours, by choice – and people still think there must be something wrong with me; that no mother could just leave her kids. But that is just not true.

Things are better for me now, but our society must give more attention to single fathers. We don’t grow up watching mothers with the idea that we may be mothers some day. We feel ashamed to ask for help. Single fathers are much more common than people know. It’s hard to meet a life partner in this circumstance, and people are less inclined to open their doors up to men in need. It’s a very lonely and scary place sometimes. Anyway, thank you for helping these men out.

A single father

Come Inside!

Because of you, Mary’s Place is able to bring women, children and families inside to safety and community. Please Come Inside at one, or both locations to enjoy cookies and cocoa, meet our families, and let us say Thank You!

Monday, November 16, 2015 5:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.
at Mary’s Place Day Center – 1830 9th Ave. Seattle

Tuesday, November 17, 2015 5:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.
at Mary’s Place Family Center – 1155 N. 130th St. Seattle

RSVP to abbey@marysplaceseattle.org or at 206-621-8474.